My Mother-in-Law Asked Me to “Scoot Over” for a Family Photo, and Three Weeks Later I Found Out Why

My mother-in-law took that picture at 7:40 on Labor Day evening, standing on her deck steps with the little silver camera she’s had since 2009. Three weeks later I found out she’d printed it, cut me out of it with kitchen scissors, and set it in a frame on her hallway table.

So let me tell you about the picture first.

That’s my husband Garrett in the middle, in the linen shirt I ironed that morning on our kitchen counter because the ironing board was already boxed up in the nursery. The blonde with her arm around his neck is Shawna. She was married to Garrett’s older brother, Danny, until a grain bin accident took him four years ago this November. And the woman on the right, holding her belly like it might drop on the grass, that’s me. Brooke. Thirty-two weeks pregnant with our daughter, swollen feet stuffed into Walmart flip-flops because nothing else fit anymore.

Look at his face. Look where he’s looking.

I’ve stared at that picture more times than I want to admit.

Every Labor Day, the Haskins family roasts a whole hog on the farm outside Bowling Green, Kentucky. Garrett’s daddy started it in 1987 and it has outlived him by six years. There’s a pit behind the machine shed, a folding table with a red checkered cloth, Glenda’s banana pudding in the same chipped Pyrex every year, and a cooler of what she calls “church punch,” which is not something you’d serve at church. Cousins drive down from Louisville. Somebody always brings cornhole boards. Somebody always ends up crying by the burn barrel.

That year it was going to be me.

Things with Shawna had been “a little much” for about a year. That was Garrett’s phrase, not mine. After Danny died, the family closed around her and her boy, Tanner, the way country families do. I understood that. I brought casseroles too. I sat next to her at the funeral home and held her coffee while her hands shook.

But somewhere along the way, “looking after Danny’s family” turned into Garrett leaving our house at nine at night because her garbage disposal was making a noise. It turned into him mowing her yard before ours. It turned into her name lighting up his phone during supper, and him flipping it face down like he was being polite.

When I said something, he’d get that tired look. “Brooke, she’s my brother’s wife.”

“Was,” I said once. Just once. He didn’t speak to me the rest of the night.

So on Labor Day I made up my mind to be pleasant. I wore the floral dress from Belk my sister said made me look glowy. I wore my Grandma Ruth’s gold watch. I brought deviled eggs with the paprika on top, the way his family likes them. I was going to smile through the whole thing, go home, and put my feet up.

Shawna showed up in that green sundress, kissed Glenda on the cheek and said, “Mama, where do you want me?” She calls her Mama. I’ve been married to Garrett three years and I still say Miss Glenda, because the one time I tried Mama she patted my hand and said, “Let’s not rush, sugar.”

All afternoon it was little things. Shawna fixing Garrett’s plate before I could get up. Shawna knowing he likes the crispy bark off the shoulder, not the middle meat. Shawna laughing at something on his phone with her chin almost on his arm. Tanner running up and calling him “Uncle G,” and then once, just once, “Dad,” and catching himself, and everybody at that table pretending they didn’t hear.

I heard.

Then Glenda wanted her picture. “Get in here, all three of you, before the light goes.”

Shawna got there first and slid in close. Garrett put his hand on her waist like it lived there. I stood at the edge waiting for him to reach for me. He did, eventually. He laid his arm over my shoulder the way you’d lean on a fence post.

And Glenda said, “Brooke, honey, scoot just a hair to the right.”

Away from him.

I scooted. God help me, I scooted.

After that I needed a minute, so I went inside to use the bathroom, which at thirty-two weeks is every twenty minutes anyway. When I came out, Shawna was standing in the narrow back hallway by the deep freezer, holding a red Solo cup she hadn’t drunk a sip from all evening. Her mascara was smudged. She glanced at the screen door, then back at me.

“I need to talk to you,” she said. “Before he comes looking for me.”

I remember thinking, here it is. Here’s where she tells me to back off.

“Shawna, I’m tired. I’m not doing this today.”

“Brooke.” She put her hand on my wrist, right over Grandma Ruth’s watch. Her fingers were ice cold from the cup. “Garrett asked me to marry him.”

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For a second the whole house went quiet in my ears. The freezer hummed. Somebody outside hollered “That’s game!” over the cornhole boards.

“He’s married,” I said. Which is a dumb thing to say to someone who already knows.

“I know he is. That’s why I said no.” She swallowed hard. “Twice.”

She told it fast. It started last Christmas Eve, when he drove her home and wouldn’t leave her porch. She swore nothing happened, and I believed her, mostly because of how ashamed she looked saying it. In March he told her he’d married me “too quick” after Danny died, that he’d been grieving and grabbed the first steady thing he saw. In June he put earnest money down on a little brick ranch on Morgantown Road. In her name.

“He said the baby didn’t change anything,” she whispered. “He said he’d do right by it. Child support. Weekends.”

It. Our daughter. Weekends.

“Why now?” I asked. “Why today?”

“Because Mama knows. She’s known since spring. She told me Danny would want his brother taking care of us, and that you’d be fine, you’re young.” Her voice cracked. “Then she moved you out of the picture like you were a lawn chair, and I watched your face, and I couldn’t stand there one more minute. I loved Danny. I’m not taking his brother from a woman carrying his child. I’m not that person.”

I walked out that screen door slower than I’ve ever walked anywhere. Garrett saw the two of us come out together and the color left his face before I said a word.

I didn’t scream. I set my deviled eggs down on the checkered cloth and said, “Shawna told me about the house on Morgantown Road.”

Glenda stood up. “Brooke. Not here. Not on your daddy-in-law’s day.”

“You moved me out of the picture, Miss Glenda,” I said. “I’m just finishing the job.”

I tried to pull my wedding ring off right there. My fingers were too swollen. Most pitiful exit in Warren County history, and I didn’t care one bit.

Shawna drove me home. Tanner sat in the back seat and didn’t say anything until we pulled into my driveway. Then he said, real quiet, “I’m sorry I called him Dad. I don’t even know why I did.”

Garrett called thirty-one times that night. When I finally answered, he said I’d misunderstood. But Shawna had already backed out of that ranch house.

I filed in October.

Three weeks after Labor Day, Shawna knocked on my door holding the frame from Glenda’s hallway table. There they were, the two of them, and a sliver of my floral dress on the edge where the scissors went crooked.

“I took it,” she said. “I’m not sorry.”

My water broke on November 6th, two days before the anniversary of Danny’s accident. Garrett didn’t pick up. Shawna drove me to Medical Center doing eighty in her truck with the hazards on, and she held my hand through every bit of it. Ruthie came at 4:52 in the morning, five pounds eleven ounces, with a holler on her you could hear down the hall.

Garrett came two days later. I let him hold her, because she hadn’t done anything wrong. He cried. I believe the tears were real. That’s the hard part. They usually are.

Our divorce was final in April. Glenda has never apologized, but last month she mailed Ruthie a christening gown she’d sewn by hand. I haven’t decided what to do with that yet.

Here’s the thing about that picture, though.

For weeks I saw a blonde woman smiling up at my husband. Now when I look, I see that red cup. She’s holding it tight, the cup she never drank from, smiling because Glenda told her to, waiting for her chance to tell me the truth.

This Labor Day we’re doing our own cookout in my backyard. Shawna’s bringing the banana pudding.